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Anxiety and Fear - Uncertainty - Dreams and Future

Time matters the most. Time is really very much important. The person who knows and understands very well the importance of time for him half of the battle is won because time management is very vital element as far as success is concerned.  Time is also related to the past as far as what had happened in the past. Like for instance, if we look at old photographs the very first reaction is those were the days when we were located at such and such place with this group of friends.  Time is related to present also.  Like for instance using mobile phones, talking on mobile phones, taking pictures, and video conferencing.  At one point of time there were no mobile phones available in India. And of course time is related to the future.  Investments, I have made investment in shares, mutual funds, bonds and various other facilities in bank, what will happen to those investments. Thus time is related to future.

When it comes to future there is sort of insecurity kind of feeling that starts working out in the mind. Later this insecurity kind of feeling is replaced by fear and finally in order to get out of fear one forgets thinking about the future purposefully and concentrates on the present. While concentrating on the present after sometime one pauses and then thinks about the future which is not too far off and then it is anxiety that starts getting into the mind.  However, when it comes to future it is uncertainty that remains as a constant factor and whether it alters between fear and anxiety uncertainty remains associated with the future.

Dreams happen to be a part of an individual's life and then it happens that when the dream is over or one suddenly realizes that what was happening was in dream one tries to get one of the current, present existing surrounding/world around him.  Then later on during the day or after few days as one comes across something, some sort of an element which is directly or indirectly related to that dream one tries to remember the particular dream, or in fact that particular period of time, finally it comes to time only when talking about dreams.

Thus time is related to Anxiety, time is related to fear, time is related to uncertainty, time is related to dreams and time is related to future. But then uncertainty remains a constant thing, a constant element/factor.

Like uncertainty anxiety is also a part of life which each individual experiences in his life at one point or other, but everytime it is not always anxiety that one goes through or that one feels, at times it is fear. Fear about the fact that one might end up losing, one might not be able to make it. Anxiety and fear are two two different, but anxiety has a tinge of fear along with it and fear is completely different element. But then as anxiety is a part of everyday life, part of each invidividual's life so is fear a part of everyday life and a part of each individual's life.

A little bit of fear, I think I will call it as an anxiety factor; it is a sort of peculiar feeling that is associated with each individual in his life at different stages of his life. Whether it is as a child, a youth or in later stages of life fear is certainly an element that makes or breaks the things. Fear for the future that is uncertain is also a fear that creeps into the mind. The future then it gets related to time, which means that the future can be one year from now or after a time period of one month, but then that which is not a part of the present and the past, it is nothing but the future. Fear works as an element which can make things happen, like for instance when one dreams one does not know how the things are shaping but one knows for sure what is going on as far as the dream is concerned and as far as the dream continues. This is followed by the fact that each individual wants that things must get worked out in the right way at the end and for that one keeps a track of the things, dreams can of course be vague, but they have a substance to them, it is like a person can correlate with what is happening with him as far as dreams are concerned. So all the focus and concentration is towards the fact that nothing untoward must happen even when one is in the dream world. The dream continues and the person is engrossed in the dream as he is fast asleep. But even in sleep as one is dreaming, one tries to focus and concentrate into his dream world. For the sake that nothing untoward incident must happen one keeps a check on the fear factor. One more interesting thing is when there is a bad dream even then as a person one tries to rectify things and make sure that everything ends on a good note. So fear is the key factor when one dream. Then when one thinks about the future and the uncertainty related to the future even then fear plays a very vital part. It is the fear that things will not get worked out as one wants that keeps the person going. So fear is sufficient enough to keep a person busy and engaged and engrossed in his work. Fear is associated with the dreams of a person and also with the uncertainty related to the future. But then fear if taken with the right degree and approach can bring out very good results. Thus fear is a part of everyday life of an individual who feels that not only my day must end on a good note, but there must be something that as a person I must gain from each day that I spent working on different things as a professional. To have the courage to smile and keep on going even at times of fear is a rare thing, but it is never to late to learn things, it is never to late to start with the things and then look for how the things will shape and how the things will be worked out. Everything that has a start has also an end to it, but then what keeps the things going on, what keeps the things moving, it is that what matters the most.

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