At times the mind is able to think and react on a past issue; a past incident or a past happening that was to some extend responsible for becoming a turning point or it was responsible for taking a part in the process of decision making. Once the decision was made the course of things changed and life was on a completely different track. But then at times the mind also thinks about those incidents which were close to the heart and which were having their own significant importance and relevance in the life of an individual.
If an individual follows a particular line of thinking for a long period of time or for more amount of time than what is needed or expected of him, then it is very much certain that an individual is concentrating and focusing on an issue from the past that either directly or indirectly relates to that particular line of thinking even at the present time of the day.
These thoughts can be on those incidents/happenings which did actually take place, but the fact of the matter is that when these incidents took place they had a prime importance especially during that period of time. Times passes by very quickly. The importance related to these incidents is highlighted in such a way that the depth and gravity of the matter pulls the person inside a shell, which most of the times is the core substance of the matter that has a significant relevance even in the present time.
But in doing so the mind at times escapes the real issues and existing facts of the present day and time. Till this time it is very obvious that there is a perception that has raised in the mind which if not tested and verified from time to time it can lead to a process of delusion.
One’s own experience makes one form his opinion and then in the future even if the situation is same and people and places are different one definitely thinks twice before putting the next step. It is human nature.
Everything that matters to an individual or is a matter of cause and concern for an individual is definitely related to him as a person and on a long term basis. At times it becomes very important to differentiate between profession and person inside you. Making things very much complicated is not going to solve the matters, but at the same time it is going to consume a lot of time and energy and the possibility that there will be a deadlock still remains there. Thus it remains important to understand and interpret the things related to an issue. At the same point of time it is very important to understand the fact that if we agree on something and we have to take a few things in our stride then that does not mean that we are inferior. This is because at times those things that get solved through talks and negotiations also lead further to better and interesting prospects and development.
Those who have power and exercise it must also be aware that they have got one more thing which needs to be kept in focus and that is responsibility. When a person who is in higher position and has got power to execute as he gains more success he has got many more things to look after than what was before. This is because the expectations from a person, who is successful rise when he delivers the goods, performs or gives excellent results. Failure of the same person can be because of any unknown factor, but what is important is self introspection, because once that is done then things become much more easy.
It does not matter how high a person reaches or how far is the destination, but what matters is the determination to get the things done and then at the same point of time perform to the best of one’s abilities. This is because there is no tomorrow in the competitive age and competition is going to be there in all fields. It is better to have a field of interest that can be of benefit in the growth of a person and once an individual selects such a field of interest then success is a matter of time.
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