After pinning hopes on a certain aspect which is an individual’s strong point or after pinning a hope on a certain thing or an element a person does not get the desired results which in other words means that expectations are not met a person feels nervous and depressed. There is an air of uncertainty that holds the grip of the person’s present state of mind and the future looks bleak. At such times there is only a certain ray of hope the person is able to see, or make out from the existing conditions and that ray of hope becomes the next best available opportunity. Once the opportunity is into picture the person tries to make the best out of it. It is not that people do not meet with diaster. But what is much more important to know is that that there are people, who have come out of diasters and made the best of their life and it is at times on the basis of an opportunity that comes along the way at times even unexpectedly. Thus at times opportunity is the form of a diaster.
In a family, the person, who gets the most attention and importance is the youngest member of the family, which most of the times is a young kid. Since early childhood the young kid is taught each and everything apart from studies and play, like what is right and what is wrong. One of the things that a young kid is taught in the childhood is that before opening the entrance door of the house make sure that if there is any stranger outside. If the person outside is really a stranger than the young kid must only take the message and inform the outsider that there is no one at home and that he should leave. Time passes by and the young kid grows into a teenager who in a short period of time will attain his adulthood. By now the teenager is going out to many places apart from his own house and colony. Then one day the teenager moves out of his own city and goes out to some other city at a friend’s or a relative’s place. At that place even the things do not change for this teenager. When the teenager is alone at the house at an outside place, he is specifically instructed that if there is this concerned person then only he must open the door and entertain that person, but otherwise for no other persons the door must be opened and that they must not be entertained. Even in the present age there are many houses which have hoarding at the entrance door on which it is
written "Salesman are not allowed" or at times "Trespassers will be prosecuted. In the second case trespassers also include salesman and of course a stranger. Thus strangers can be dangerous with evil intentions in their mind and at times they can be even fatal.
Risk is involved at any time and at any point even when you are at home or even when you step out. It is the ability of the person to make his own judgement and then built his own confidence in such a way that he is able to differentiate between right and wrong. At the early stages of life as a kid or a teenager the parents are of great help, but not later on. Trust and mutual understanding can be learnt on the basis of experiences only. Friendship is forever is something which depends upon whether the person is referring to a group of people or an individual.
Discrete is the right term that is applicable at the time when a person has to decide about what is right and what is wrong. There is no second chance in life, but only when it comes to a competition. Otherwise it is only after a failure that a person learns what is the right way to get success.
The importance of time and the importance of success must be known to a person at all times in his life because then and then only he can progress and move ahead in his life. Hurdles will be a part of life. Life never ceases to make dreams and keeps on building up expectations. Ascertain a thing only when the mind is clear about the thing and when one has a complete understanding about a thing. Once the thing is ascertained for sure then and then only make a decision and take the next step. At times it is the short steps that an individual takes that works out for him and make him successful, instead of taking a big leap about which he is uncertain and which can also lead to a diaster.
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